Update!

This was taken in 1991 in Long Beach, CA. A young married couple (Melonie and Richard) was looking for a bi chick to play with. Melonie hadn't been with a girl before and wanted to try it. I answered the ad and told them I might be that chick. Like with Tom and Melissa, we met for dinner and decided to pursue some fun.

We arranged to meet at a beach house they rented on the following Friday night. I drove to Long Beach, got there, and they let me in. I couldn't believe what they did. They had dinner ready, flowers all over the place, soft music, and dimmed lights. The windows were open and catching the breeze off the ocean. These two did everything they could think of to set the mood and put me at ease (although by this time, I was already very sexually experienced).

I had a blast and they did, as well. I paid for nothing and was treated to a couple of great dinners, some fine wine, and two days in a fantastic beach house with two attractive, wonderful people. I was treated like royalty and they acted like I was doing them a favor. In truth, they're the ones who went out of their way for me. Sex is sooooo much better with people you like.

I only saw them that one weekend as not long after, Melony found out she was pregnant. They felt that they wanted their kid to have traditional parents (i.e. non-swingers). I think they made the right decision. Had we had kids, we would've done the same.

They were really nice and respectful and were very good about using condoms and other safe sex practices. They only took a few non x-rated pics and sent me copies--and a bouquet of roses, which I really thought was sweet. This was my absolute favorite. They did contact me one more time to let me know that Melonie had a healthy baby girl (I had asked them to let me know).

That kid was lucky. She has some really cool parents. But I bet she's known that for awhile.

Yeah, I've been making changes. I actually changed this template a couple weeks or so ago, but have just gotten around to writing up an entry on it.

Bad me! Spank me! Harder! Fucking harder! LOL I better stop. Hubby saw that and asked where the ping pong paddles were (turn them upside down and we'll talk, honey!).

So why the dramatic change?

Well, first off, I wanted to do it now. I'm getting a bit more savvy with the widgets and all that go into these blogs and I figured I might as well do it before I added a bunch of things. I did add a bunch of pics the other day, but I hadn't done too many other things.

As for the template, I really liked what I was using. It's called "Gradient Red" and I did originally choose it because red is my rave-fave color. But there were some issues I had trouble with.

First off, I wanted to add a "Recent Comments" section. But when I added it under the last template, the names of the commenters were showing up in black (right where the template starts transitioning to black) and couldn't be seen. I wasn't able to change that.

I couldn't change the font or color of the blog title. And I couldn't change the font or color on the headings on the pictures, either.

Also, that template really had a heavy type of feel to it. I wanted something a little cleaner and easier on the eyes. I think this template does that. I can add red to several areas as well.

My only complaint is regarding the columns. I'd prefer it if I could have the main blog entry column in the middle. But that's no biggie. I'm already getting used to this new format.

Oh, a new pic on "About Me". Okay, this takes a little explaining.

Was showing beloved the new layout and asked his opinion on what pic I should use. I like the one of me in the black dress, but thought I'd get his take on it. So we're looking through the pics and he chose one.

Anyway, a couple of months ago we were kicking back one Saturday afternoon (we were all alone that weekend), and I was hungry. And I wanted something from S'Barros. I wanted some Italian food...but didn't want to go to a sit-down restaurant. I was in full instant gratification mode, I guess.

So hubby took me down to the North Point Mall. And I got some spaghetti and he got some pizza. Afterward, I wanted to run to Bath & Body Works. And on the way, he took out this camera and the wanna-be Playboy photographer took my pic.

I'm pretty much like a trained seal in this regard. He's taken so many of me over the years that whenever he grabs his camera, I just pose. You should see me balance a beach ball on my nose and slap my flippers together.

Anyway, he loved the pic the second he took it. I didn't give it a second thought till he brought it up.

"This one's in my all-time top ten Lexie pics," he responded.
"Why?" I asked. I'm a girly-girl (I mean, non-sexually). I'm all about the makeup, different hairstyles, clothes, all that. I figured that me in some old sweats wasn't anything special.

"No make up, no dressing up, no nothing. Just you in some old clothes. And you're still gorgeous."

Wow. What girl doesn't like hearing THAT from her hubby?

Now it's in MY all-time top ten Lexie pics too. In fact, it just might be THE top. Did I ever mention that I really love my hubby? LOL

The Mitzie Project is still going strong, with a new wrinkle.

Mitzie became romantically involved with a sweetheart of a girl named Kellie before she moved in with us. Originally, they both considered it some fun and that was it.

Of course, it wasn't.

They kept in touch and Mitzie would have Kellie over to spend the weekend with her and would go over herself. They couldn't let go of each other. So finally, after exchanging the "I love you's", they decided that they belonged together.

Wow. Both are so young. Mitzie's 22 and Kellie's 19. But....so what? When you fall in love, you fall in love.

So Mitzie approached me about the possibility of Kellie moving in with her. Hubby and I were fine with this. Kellie hadn't--and still hasn't--played with us or the group, but we had met her several times. She was nice, sweet, respectful and funny.

And here's where I went from crazy bi chick to mother hen.

I told Mitzie that it was fine, but that meant she had to give something up for a bit. That something was playtime with me and hubby, as well as Lori and Shelly. No pickups, online or offline. Just Mitzie and Kellie.

She was a bit mystified. "Why? Kellie's cool with playing."

Sigh.

I explained to her that if they were indeed serious about being in a committed, but open, relationship, they could handle two months of monogamy. Hubby and I did it. And had we needed more time, we would've taken it. There are enough hurdles to clear when you start out with someone special without throwing in a dynamic like multiple sex partners and group sex. There are couples who've been together years who've tried it and almost lost each other.

It's one thing to do this type of thing when you're single. But when you're part of a couple, it can be tough watching the one you love getting busy with another person. That takes a little bit of a tough skin. You have to be ready for it.

Our plan was never to bring Mitzie over as a play toy. I mean, we love her. We wanted her to get a good start in her adult life, and this new job and our--their--garage apartment will do that. We value this girl for who she is, not just for sex, and we need her to understand that. There are lots of girls we've valued strictly for sex, don't get me wrong, but not Mitzie. And since Kellie's important to her, Kellie's important to us.

We're fine with the girls socializing with us, eating dinner, visiting and all that. But we want them to use this "alone time" to help stabilize and solidify their relationship. If in two months they feel like they want the wild fun, then they are more than welcome to join in. If not, that's fine with us as well.

If they want more time, they can take it. That apartment is theirs as long as they want it. We want these two to know that we love them for the right reasons, and that's not their bodies (though we certainly appreciate those as well, LOL).

Of course, the two are starting to lobby for a reduction in what they refer to as their "exile". Maybe they'll get it. But the two girls have to listen to me; I'm 38, and have been doing this a long time. I know the ups and downs and highs and lows of this type of lifestyle. It's not all about getting off. It's tricky stuff. People can get hurt.

Luckily, another "veteran", Lori, is behind me on this (although I prefer her on top of me) as is hubby (whom I also prefer on top, although I do enjoy a good ride on his hard cock as well) and our resident superhero, Shelly. And my darling Janey, whom I haven't written about yet, also backed me.

But aside from the half-hearted lobbying, they have agreed to the terms and conditions. They're sweethearts. They know why we're doing this. Nothing would make me happier than seeing these two women together in ten years, in their own house, living the lifestyle of their choice, be it monogamous or not.

Actions have consequences. And the action that will have the best consequences for these two lovebirds will be to take a step back and devote as much time and love to each other as possible. The fun can come later.

That's how hubby and I did it. I hated going two or so months without a woman. It's the longest I've ever gone without a girl, but I did it, and I would've done it longer had we felt the need. It worked for us, and it'll work for them.

Anyhoo, I hope you like the new layout!

Hubby's Really Suffering.....

Okay.....

So Wednesday, I opened my email and got that little picture posted above. With it came a little note that said, "Hey, Lexers! Your hubby and I are thinking of you!"

Cute, Melody....very cute!

I actually like her quite a bit. Hubby met her during our time in Florida and she took very good care of him. I met her a few times and really took to her quirky sense of humor. Melody was married at the time they met but is divorced now (no, hubby didn't cause the breakup). Anyway, she'll disappear for months and then out of the blue will call or email one of us.

So....she read my last entry and, of course, immediately called my hubby. And, of course, he immediately agreed to meet her.

I SHOULD show the little imp's face....but I won't.....LOL

Anywayssssssss......

Tonight was a chicks night out dinner!

Okay, it was just me, Mitzie, Lori, Shelly, Janine, and my friends Ashley and Gina grabbing dinner at Ippolito's, a great Italian restaurant.

Pretty cool. I love food. I just don't like cooking it.

Hubby's back home tomorrow night. I shall exact my revenge on him for meeting up with that troublemaker Melody! LOL

So....Ain't This Ironic?

"Where do i plug this in?"

I spent 12 or so years traveling for business like crazy. Come home, unpack, stay a bit and then off again. So when it ended, I was pretty happy. I could be home with the hubby and not have to go through the hassle of airports so much. Traveling so much gets really, really old after awhile.

Sure, I still do some, but not nearly as much.

And cutting down on traveling has meant not getting to see a lot of steady girlfriends like I used to, but having the three lovelies we have now is even better. And let's face it: Atlanta girls are pretty cute!

So everything's perfect, right?

Not this week! No sir! And I'm in a Lexie-fit right now!

Hubby had to go down to Tampa for a few days and I cried like a baby when he left.

This sucks.

A lawyer buddy of his needs help with some document review involving one business merging with another and called hubby up this morning to help his firm wrap it all up. So hubby was able to clear the calendar and zip down there this morning. He'll be back on Thursday or Friday.

This sucks. I hate it. I repeat: I hate it.

I never cried when I had to leave.

But I always felt a little guilty about traveling so much. Now I'm really feeling guilty. He's traveled before for business (not all that much, though), but that usually happened when I had been traveling as well. Now I'm getting a taste of what it's like to see someone you love leave.

I'd leave, come back, and he'd be there. And we'd catch up, he'd make me lunch or dinner or whatever, and we'd have fun and spend time together until I left again. Now I'm the one who'll be here when he gets back.

This sucks.

When your significant other travels, you worry about everything. The flight. Him getting around okay. That he'll eat okay and not buy Pop Tarts and call them dinner (actually, that's more of a Lexie thing, but you get my drift....).

And on top of worrying about him, what about poor me?

And who's gonna fix my dinner? I don't fucking cook! I'm a horrible cook! I've been spoiled and it's all his fault! He's cooked for me since we first met and now that I need him to make me something, he's in Tampa! And there's no room service here!

Of course, that was his master plan all along, wasn't it? Yeah....cook for me for fifteen years and then when the time was right, abandon me. I'm left alone with a plethora of Banquet dinners.

So I did what any devotee of not cooking does: I went to Steak N' Shake. Well, more accurately, Mitzie and I went to Steak N' Shake. Mitzie loves Steak N' Shake. Tomorrow, we'll stop by....hmmm....hold on....

Mitzie wants Mexican. Sounds good to me.

I'm left alone with a pile of laundry that needs to be done!

Sure, it's mostly MY laundry, but let's not get off-track here, okay?

Sure, I hear you now. "Poor spoiled Alex! Has to cook for herself!" Oh yeah? Well you know what? When I was travelling, I still took care of our checking and bills, even on the road! Yeah, so he should somehow figure out a way to cook and clean while HE'S on the road!

Sounds reasonable to me.

Here are some things I don't do:

Laundry.

Go two days without an orgasm.

Laundry.

Cook.

Support higher taxes.

Go two days without an orgasm.

Sleep alone.

Run out of Snickers Bars.

That's how Lexenomics rocks!

Okay, okay. I'm just joking around about all the cooking and cleaning stuff. I can fix food well enough to get by (although eating out is far more fun!), and I don't give a flying fuck about the laundry. I can do it. But....

Sigh....I miss my hubby. I just miss my hubby.

Funny thing is, when I stopped traveling so much, I was a little worried. It had been years since we lived together day in and day out. We had become accustomed to being apart. That just isn't cool. But that's how it was.

But then a week passed. Then another. Then another. I met the girls. Then another week. And I loved it. It was just like when we first got married. I had nothing to fear.

And now he leaves!

Bad hubby!

At least he'll get to visit with my friend Janey and her girlfriend Allison. That'll be cool.

But, bad hubby!

On the other hand.....some "Mitzie/Lexie" private time will help fill the void.

November 1994

Ryan says with a smile like mine, no wonder I get away with so much. I have NO clue as to what he's talking about! I mean, look who's talking! LOL Besides, I'm just another typical working woman, right?

While their hubbies are away.....Lori and Shelly play! With us, of course.

Nice weekend. We all got to play and relax. Weekends are for recharging, no matter how you do it. And our way is a bit....unconventional....but it works! Orgasms are always a good stress reliever! LOL

Anyway, it's been a bit since I did a new entry, so I thought I'd upload some photos from way back. Ryan snapped these when we celebrated our first anniversary as husband and wife one weekend in November 1994. I asked him to edit these for my blog and he was happy to do so.

For a price, of course. LOL

Anyway, I hope you enjoy them!

Just Checking In.....

Niece and mommy are doing just fine!

Today....was just wonderful. The girls came over around noon and the five of us had some pizzas and beers. Then after some television, it was time to get naked. Sex....is great. The only bummer of the day was a bi friend of mine in Roswell, Janine, couldn't make it. Her hubby was supposed to work, but that fell through.

I met Janine last year after I was promoted. I had been chatting online with her for several months, but we could never get together due to our schedules (I was still traveling a lot for my job). We chatted some on the phone as well and really got to know each other. Finally, when I stopped traveling as much, we got together. Her hubby doesn't know she's bi and would freak. I'm guessing that he'd freak if found out that she's had some threesomes with me and MY hubby.

Hopefully, she can make it next weekend. I think Lori and Shelly will be in Daytona for the weekend and Ryan and I can show Janine another fantastic time. Mitzie will be having a girlfriend over from Birmingham and they'll be spending quality time in her apartment (yes, THAT kind of quality time).

The whole Mitzie situation, by the way, is working out extremely well so far. We're trying to give her her space and she's feeling her way--so to speak--around us. Once we're all more used to this situation, it'll be even better.

She's doing great at her job, of course. I knew that she would. She's getting an intensive dose of training and what she'll be responsible for, but she can handle it.

Speaking of Miss Thang, she's still here. LOL As in, still in the house, walking around in nothing but a robe (which is what I'm wearing). She's always welcome to stay in the house on weekends--Lori and Shelly have their own room here.

And....she wants a kiss......

Okay, she wanted more than that. LOL She opened my robe and went down on me. Now THAT'S what I call a good time. Of course, I HAD to reciprocate! Hey, like I say in the section "About Me", we're pretty much the closest thing to porn stars you'll ever meet! And that's how we roll around here, especially on the weekend. Plenty of sex, and if you're up, you're gonna get hit on!

Funny....everybody's free to say "no" whenever they feel like it....but nobody ever does!

I think Mitzie will be sleeping with me and hubby tonight. LOL Oh, and she says "Word" to everybody.

Well, Bev's coming over Monday. Big surprise. LOL She'll give hubby a nice lunch break! Such a sweetheart. I wouldn't be surprised if she came over every day next week. She's got some serious catching up to do. It's nice that we'll have her over so much, at least for the summer. Hopefully, she can keep coming over after her kids go back to school, although it certainly won't be as consistent.

Okay, I've had it. I'm beat. I think the chair sex with Mitzie did me in. LOL She's in our bed and I think I'll join her and my husband and get some sleep.

Hope you all have a fantastic weekend!

Just Waitin' For A Call.....

Readers, meet Bev. Bev, meet my readers.

Sister-in-law is in labor tonight. My brother's a vet in the Dallas-Ft. Worth area and their third is on the way. Woooooohoooooooo! Auntie Alex to another niece!


No WAY I can sleep tonight, so I'm going to take a personal day tomorrow. If I'm needed, work knows where to find me.


So while I wait, I'm here.


Mitzie's all moved into the apartment now. She got here Wednesday and hubby and I helped her move her stuff in. There wasn't too much she brought over. And Birmingham isn't all that far away, so I'm sure she'll be bringing more stuff over.


We showed her around on Thursday and Friday and took her out to eat. I still need to take her shopping for window treatments. I want her to pick them out. As for now, she has some blinds. We'll have to put up some curtains and such.


It didn't take long for Mitzie to break out and enjoy her new independence. Shelly had her over late Friday night for a one on one session. They came up and joined the rest of us on Saturday afternoon. I loved that Mitzie went to see Shelly. They hadn't connected by themselves, just in our group.


So Lori, Shelly, Mitzie and my friend Bev joined us on Saturday. I love the weekends and I love group sex.


Bev's 35 and I met her a few years ago in a chat room. We got to talking and she was bitching about her hubby not being interested in sex. You know, the usual stuff you hear in married chats. So since she was local, I decided to see if she wanted to do my hubby. She jumped at the chance and since then has come over and had sex with him every couple of months.


She and her hubby have two kids and it's tough for her to sneak over. But when she does, she gives my hubby an incredible time.


So Bev and hubby spent a couple of hours together while the rest of us partied in the living room. Such a pity that Bev is straight! SO CUTE! Anyway, Bev left and hubby joined the rest of us. Hubby and I stayed up till midnight and went to bed while the girls chatted in the hot tub. Today, we played for most of the day until Shelly and Lori headed home.


I'll have to post some more pics of Bev. VERY hot lady. She's a real sweetheat, too. I think she has a major crush on hubby. That's cool--it's not like he's going to run away with her. LOL And she isn't the first to have one on him. I'm so fucking tired right now.

When's this little girl gonna get birthed? The little diva is just taking her time! LOL I started this entry hours ago and have been writing it up and surfing the net while trying to not go bonkers!

My beloved tried to stay up, but ended up passed out on the couch. He tried. I'll wake him when the young lady has arrived.

So Mitzie's snoozing away in her apartment. If she's had any trouble handling her life completely changing, she sure isn't showing it. It's good to be able to handle change. LOL

Soooooooooo glad the Lakers won the title! I'm a California girl and grew up rooting for them. So did hubby. Number 15 was saaaaaaaaahweeeeeeeeeeeeeettttttttt, especially after the way they lost to the Celts last year. I think LA overachieved last year. They weren't expected to reach the Finals, and when they did, they weren't ready to handle the Celts. This year they were tougher and hungrier and ready to take it all!

I wish we could've flown out for the parade, but with our work and with Mitzie coming, we just were too busy. Woulda been cool for hubby and I to hook up with Tom and Melissa! They don't swing too much anymore (both have had some health issues that thankfully weren't too serious), but we have an open invite to have some fun with them should the opportunity occur.

A Lakers championship parade and foursome. Would've been a sweet couple of days. LOL

And I just got a call from my brother that informed me that my second niece has arrived! Mother and darling baby niece are doing just fine!

Sorry, gotta post this. Can't write when I'm crying! :)

Some Pics of Jilly & Me

I got a call from my friend Jilly the other day.  I got to thinking that it'd be fun to post some pics of us back in the day.  She rocks, and I still adore her.

Jilly now.

This was taken not long after we started dating.

The power of Lexenomics compels you to have lots of fun!

Chillin'.

Jilly and I at a friend's costume party.  She went as a hooker and I was the cop who arrested her.  Up against the wall, lady!

I'm on the right, hugging Janice.  She was a friend of ours and, like Jilly, a counselor at the Center for Gay and Lesbian Students.  She had just graduated from Harvey Mudd College and had accepted an engineering job in Minnesota.

Ready to do a belly flop on Jilly.  Sadly, she successfully begged for mercy!

Jilly horsing around with our friend Sally.

I'm on the far left and Jilly's right next to me.  I have no clue as to the other girls' names.  We had..uh...been consuming some adult beverages.

Miss Dramatic striking a pose.

Hey!  I think I invented the inverted lesbian lap dance!

Showing Jilly who was boss!

 

Goofing around for the camera.  Jilly's on the far left, and I'm second from the right.  I've forgotten the other two girls' names, but remember that they were really nice.  Again....we had been consuming adult beverages.