Hubby's Really Suffering.....

Okay.....

So Wednesday, I opened my email and got that little picture posted above. With it came a little note that said, "Hey, Lexers! Your hubby and I are thinking of you!"

Cute, Melody....very cute!

I actually like her quite a bit. Hubby met her during our time in Florida and she took very good care of him. I met her a few times and really took to her quirky sense of humor. Melody was married at the time they met but is divorced now (no, hubby didn't cause the breakup). Anyway, she'll disappear for months and then out of the blue will call or email one of us.

So....she read my last entry and, of course, immediately called my hubby. And, of course, he immediately agreed to meet her.

I SHOULD show the little imp's face....but I won't.....LOL

Anywayssssssss......

Tonight was a chicks night out dinner!

Okay, it was just me, Mitzie, Lori, Shelly, Janine, and my friends Ashley and Gina grabbing dinner at Ippolito's, a great Italian restaurant.

Pretty cool. I love food. I just don't like cooking it.

Hubby's back home tomorrow night. I shall exact my revenge on him for meeting up with that troublemaker Melody! LOL

So....Ain't This Ironic?

"Where do i plug this in?"

I spent 12 or so years traveling for business like crazy. Come home, unpack, stay a bit and then off again. So when it ended, I was pretty happy. I could be home with the hubby and not have to go through the hassle of airports so much. Traveling so much gets really, really old after awhile.

Sure, I still do some, but not nearly as much.

And cutting down on traveling has meant not getting to see a lot of steady girlfriends like I used to, but having the three lovelies we have now is even better. And let's face it: Atlanta girls are pretty cute!

So everything's perfect, right?

Not this week! No sir! And I'm in a Lexie-fit right now!

Hubby had to go down to Tampa for a few days and I cried like a baby when he left.

This sucks.

A lawyer buddy of his needs help with some document review involving one business merging with another and called hubby up this morning to help his firm wrap it all up. So hubby was able to clear the calendar and zip down there this morning. He'll be back on Thursday or Friday.

This sucks. I hate it. I repeat: I hate it.

I never cried when I had to leave.

But I always felt a little guilty about traveling so much. Now I'm really feeling guilty. He's traveled before for business (not all that much, though), but that usually happened when I had been traveling as well. Now I'm getting a taste of what it's like to see someone you love leave.

I'd leave, come back, and he'd be there. And we'd catch up, he'd make me lunch or dinner or whatever, and we'd have fun and spend time together until I left again. Now I'm the one who'll be here when he gets back.

This sucks.

When your significant other travels, you worry about everything. The flight. Him getting around okay. That he'll eat okay and not buy Pop Tarts and call them dinner (actually, that's more of a Lexie thing, but you get my drift....).

And on top of worrying about him, what about poor me?

And who's gonna fix my dinner? I don't fucking cook! I'm a horrible cook! I've been spoiled and it's all his fault! He's cooked for me since we first met and now that I need him to make me something, he's in Tampa! And there's no room service here!

Of course, that was his master plan all along, wasn't it? Yeah....cook for me for fifteen years and then when the time was right, abandon me. I'm left alone with a plethora of Banquet dinners.

So I did what any devotee of not cooking does: I went to Steak N' Shake. Well, more accurately, Mitzie and I went to Steak N' Shake. Mitzie loves Steak N' Shake. Tomorrow, we'll stop by....hmmm....hold on....

Mitzie wants Mexican. Sounds good to me.

I'm left alone with a pile of laundry that needs to be done!

Sure, it's mostly MY laundry, but let's not get off-track here, okay?

Sure, I hear you now. "Poor spoiled Alex! Has to cook for herself!" Oh yeah? Well you know what? When I was travelling, I still took care of our checking and bills, even on the road! Yeah, so he should somehow figure out a way to cook and clean while HE'S on the road!

Sounds reasonable to me.

Here are some things I don't do:

Laundry.

Go two days without an orgasm.

Laundry.

Cook.

Support higher taxes.

Go two days without an orgasm.

Sleep alone.

Run out of Snickers Bars.

That's how Lexenomics rocks!

Okay, okay. I'm just joking around about all the cooking and cleaning stuff. I can fix food well enough to get by (although eating out is far more fun!), and I don't give a flying fuck about the laundry. I can do it. But....

Sigh....I miss my hubby. I just miss my hubby.

Funny thing is, when I stopped traveling so much, I was a little worried. It had been years since we lived together day in and day out. We had become accustomed to being apart. That just isn't cool. But that's how it was.

But then a week passed. Then another. Then another. I met the girls. Then another week. And I loved it. It was just like when we first got married. I had nothing to fear.

And now he leaves!

Bad hubby!

At least he'll get to visit with my friend Janey and her girlfriend Allison. That'll be cool.

But, bad hubby!

On the other hand.....some "Mitzie/Lexie" private time will help fill the void.

November 1994

Ryan says with a smile like mine, no wonder I get away with so much. I have NO clue as to what he's talking about! I mean, look who's talking! LOL Besides, I'm just another typical working woman, right?

While their hubbies are away.....Lori and Shelly play! With us, of course.

Nice weekend. We all got to play and relax. Weekends are for recharging, no matter how you do it. And our way is a bit....unconventional....but it works! Orgasms are always a good stress reliever! LOL

Anyway, it's been a bit since I did a new entry, so I thought I'd upload some photos from way back. Ryan snapped these when we celebrated our first anniversary as husband and wife one weekend in November 1994. I asked him to edit these for my blog and he was happy to do so.

For a price, of course. LOL

Anyway, I hope you enjoy them!

Just Checking In.....

Niece and mommy are doing just fine!

Today....was just wonderful. The girls came over around noon and the five of us had some pizzas and beers. Then after some television, it was time to get naked. Sex....is great. The only bummer of the day was a bi friend of mine in Roswell, Janine, couldn't make it. Her hubby was supposed to work, but that fell through.

I met Janine last year after I was promoted. I had been chatting online with her for several months, but we could never get together due to our schedules (I was still traveling a lot for my job). We chatted some on the phone as well and really got to know each other. Finally, when I stopped traveling as much, we got together. Her hubby doesn't know she's bi and would freak. I'm guessing that he'd freak if found out that she's had some threesomes with me and MY hubby.

Hopefully, she can make it next weekend. I think Lori and Shelly will be in Daytona for the weekend and Ryan and I can show Janine another fantastic time. Mitzie will be having a girlfriend over from Birmingham and they'll be spending quality time in her apartment (yes, THAT kind of quality time).

The whole Mitzie situation, by the way, is working out extremely well so far. We're trying to give her her space and she's feeling her way--so to speak--around us. Once we're all more used to this situation, it'll be even better.

She's doing great at her job, of course. I knew that she would. She's getting an intensive dose of training and what she'll be responsible for, but she can handle it.

Speaking of Miss Thang, she's still here. LOL As in, still in the house, walking around in nothing but a robe (which is what I'm wearing). She's always welcome to stay in the house on weekends--Lori and Shelly have their own room here.

And....she wants a kiss......

Okay, she wanted more than that. LOL She opened my robe and went down on me. Now THAT'S what I call a good time. Of course, I HAD to reciprocate! Hey, like I say in the section "About Me", we're pretty much the closest thing to porn stars you'll ever meet! And that's how we roll around here, especially on the weekend. Plenty of sex, and if you're up, you're gonna get hit on!

Funny....everybody's free to say "no" whenever they feel like it....but nobody ever does!

I think Mitzie will be sleeping with me and hubby tonight. LOL Oh, and she says "Word" to everybody.

Well, Bev's coming over Monday. Big surprise. LOL She'll give hubby a nice lunch break! Such a sweetheart. I wouldn't be surprised if she came over every day next week. She's got some serious catching up to do. It's nice that we'll have her over so much, at least for the summer. Hopefully, she can keep coming over after her kids go back to school, although it certainly won't be as consistent.

Okay, I've had it. I'm beat. I think the chair sex with Mitzie did me in. LOL She's in our bed and I think I'll join her and my husband and get some sleep.

Hope you all have a fantastic weekend!

Just Waitin' For A Call.....

Readers, meet Bev. Bev, meet my readers.

Sister-in-law is in labor tonight. My brother's a vet in the Dallas-Ft. Worth area and their third is on the way. Woooooohoooooooo! Auntie Alex to another niece!


No WAY I can sleep tonight, so I'm going to take a personal day tomorrow. If I'm needed, work knows where to find me.


So while I wait, I'm here.


Mitzie's all moved into the apartment now. She got here Wednesday and hubby and I helped her move her stuff in. There wasn't too much she brought over. And Birmingham isn't all that far away, so I'm sure she'll be bringing more stuff over.


We showed her around on Thursday and Friday and took her out to eat. I still need to take her shopping for window treatments. I want her to pick them out. As for now, she has some blinds. We'll have to put up some curtains and such.


It didn't take long for Mitzie to break out and enjoy her new independence. Shelly had her over late Friday night for a one on one session. They came up and joined the rest of us on Saturday afternoon. I loved that Mitzie went to see Shelly. They hadn't connected by themselves, just in our group.


So Lori, Shelly, Mitzie and my friend Bev joined us on Saturday. I love the weekends and I love group sex.


Bev's 35 and I met her a few years ago in a chat room. We got to talking and she was bitching about her hubby not being interested in sex. You know, the usual stuff you hear in married chats. So since she was local, I decided to see if she wanted to do my hubby. She jumped at the chance and since then has come over and had sex with him every couple of months.


She and her hubby have two kids and it's tough for her to sneak over. But when she does, she gives my hubby an incredible time.


So Bev and hubby spent a couple of hours together while the rest of us partied in the living room. Such a pity that Bev is straight! SO CUTE! Anyway, Bev left and hubby joined the rest of us. Hubby and I stayed up till midnight and went to bed while the girls chatted in the hot tub. Today, we played for most of the day until Shelly and Lori headed home.


I'll have to post some more pics of Bev. VERY hot lady. She's a real sweetheat, too. I think she has a major crush on hubby. That's cool--it's not like he's going to run away with her. LOL And she isn't the first to have one on him. I'm so fucking tired right now.

When's this little girl gonna get birthed? The little diva is just taking her time! LOL I started this entry hours ago and have been writing it up and surfing the net while trying to not go bonkers!

My beloved tried to stay up, but ended up passed out on the couch. He tried. I'll wake him when the young lady has arrived.

So Mitzie's snoozing away in her apartment. If she's had any trouble handling her life completely changing, she sure isn't showing it. It's good to be able to handle change. LOL

Soooooooooo glad the Lakers won the title! I'm a California girl and grew up rooting for them. So did hubby. Number 15 was saaaaaaaaahweeeeeeeeeeeeeettttttttt, especially after the way they lost to the Celts last year. I think LA overachieved last year. They weren't expected to reach the Finals, and when they did, they weren't ready to handle the Celts. This year they were tougher and hungrier and ready to take it all!

I wish we could've flown out for the parade, but with our work and with Mitzie coming, we just were too busy. Woulda been cool for hubby and I to hook up with Tom and Melissa! They don't swing too much anymore (both have had some health issues that thankfully weren't too serious), but we have an open invite to have some fun with them should the opportunity occur.

A Lakers championship parade and foursome. Would've been a sweet couple of days. LOL

And I just got a call from my brother that informed me that my second niece has arrived! Mother and darling baby niece are doing just fine!

Sorry, gotta post this. Can't write when I'm crying! :)

Some Pics of Jilly & Me

I got a call from my friend Jilly the other day.  I got to thinking that it'd be fun to post some pics of us back in the day.  She rocks, and I still adore her.

Jilly now.

This was taken not long after we started dating.

The power of Lexenomics compels you to have lots of fun!

Chillin'.

Jilly and I at a friend's costume party.  She went as a hooker and I was the cop who arrested her.  Up against the wall, lady!

I'm on the right, hugging Janice.  She was a friend of ours and, like Jilly, a counselor at the Center for Gay and Lesbian Students.  She had just graduated from Harvey Mudd College and had accepted an engineering job in Minnesota.

Ready to do a belly flop on Jilly.  Sadly, she successfully begged for mercy!

Jilly horsing around with our friend Sally.

I'm on the far left and Jilly's right next to me.  I have no clue as to the other girls' names.  We had..uh...been consuming some adult beverages.

Miss Dramatic striking a pose.

Hey!  I think I invented the inverted lesbian lap dance!

Showing Jilly who was boss!

 

Goofing around for the camera.  Jilly's on the far left, and I'm second from the right.  I've forgotten the other two girls' names, but remember that they were really nice.  Again....we had been consuming adult beverages.

Well, We're Certainly Happy!

Meet Mitzie.  :)

I'm on the left, Mitzie's on the right.

Okay. I hope you're bored, because this is one long-ass entry. LOL

Several months ago, a girl named Mitzi stumbled across my hubby's blog. She emailed my hubby and told him how much she liked his blog and how much fun she had reading it. She also asked for my email and contacted me as well.

She had a lot of questions about bisexuality (she was already sexually active), careers, relationships, our lifestyle, and all that. I was happy to chat with her. She's 22, and was looking at alternative lifestyles. She wasn't all that anxious to jump into marriage or a committed relationship, but didn't want to sleep around indiscriminately. 

We chatted for a few weeks and she started asking to come see us. Neither my hubby nor I were really anxious to just take this girl and throw into our sex lives. We're pretty hardcore. Most weekends, we have at least Lori and Shelly over, and sometimes an extra girl or two (and maybe a guy, depending upon our tastes). 

To just take this girl and throw her into that, more matter how willing she was.....ehhhh.....

I mean, this was a big decision. Sure, she could come over and we could have a threesome or moresome and if it wasn't for her, she could walk away. But we're a compilation of our past experiences, to a certain extent. What if she didn't like it and felt like a slut for the next couple of years? What if she met someone and wanted to be completely open and honest and that person rejected her?

What if, what if.

I mean, when hubby does a married lady or I do a married lady or guy on the side, neither of us care about that. It's a different dynamic. We lay that on them. They've made their choice. And most are experienced enough to deal with a one-on-one affair.

Group sex though.....a bit different. A bit more "out there". You have to like watching.....you have to like being watched. You have to be comfortable having sex with multiple partners at the same time. It's a different animal than sex of the one on one variety.

And there was another concern: we had a pretty set group. I mean, Lori and Shelly are absolutely perfect for us. Would another person set off the chemistry?

So we kind of put her off. And it wasn't easy. As you can tell, she's stunning. Beautiful. 10 on that scale of 1 to 10. 

But as I chatted with her, more and more I started realizing that there was something really special about her. Smart, level-headed, funny, and most importantly, mature. She wasn't a partier, heavy drinker, or drug user.

She worked part-time and was working toward her associate's degree in Office Technology. Everything about her screamed "adult". And boy, what an easygoing girl. Hubby and I really hit if off with her.

So one Saturday night, we told her that if she still wanted to visit for a weekend, to come on over. It was only a three or so hour drive from Birmingham. We agreed on the following weekend. She'd come over Friday afternoon and stay until Sunday night.

The following Friday came and Mitzie was at our door. She immediately hugged me and then my hubby. Hubby ordered a couple of pizzas and I showed Mitzi to one of our guest rooms (Lori and Shelly share the other one on weekends).

The three of us chatted and ate for a couple of hours and really hit it off. Mitzie was everything she had seemed to be on-line. So I leaned back and said, "Still interested?" She said that she was. So I smiled and said, "Then fuck him."

She smiled, stood up, and pulled off her shirt and pulled down her shorts and panties. Ryan got up and unhooked her bra and they started kissing. Hot. His hands were gripping her cute butt and finally he laid her down on the couch.

This girl was going to get some serious foreplay.

Hubby went down on Mitzie for about ten or so minutes, making her cum twice. Then he turned her over onto her stomach and started eating her ass. Hubby loves doing this, and he's pretty fucking good at it. He made Mitzie cum again and then flipped her onto her back.

He then took his hand and masturbated her. And when she came, I'm surprised our neighbors didn't hear it! LOL

I looked at him and laughed. "Honey, would you fuck her already?"

Hubby stripped down and Mitzie sat up and sucked him for a bit. Then he laid her down and fucked her for a couple of minutes.

I was tired of watching. I had been masturbating while watching them and had had enough. So I pulled the rest of my clothes off and straddled her face. Mitzie may not have had a ton of experience, but she knew how to eat out a woman--I came in just a few minutes.

I laid down and Ryan started fucking me. Mitzie then straddled my face and I got my first taste of her. And she did taste really, really good.

And....that's how it went for the rest of the night. Ryan came a few times (twice in Mitzie) and I lost count of my orgasms. We'd play....rest.....play some more, etc..... When it was done, hubby kissed us both and took a shower and passed out in bed. Mitzie and I chatted. I wanted to make sure she was cool with what had happened.

She was. No regrets. She loved it. And she asked if Lori and Shelly were still coming over in the morning (she already knew them on-line). I told her yes, if that's what she wanted. It was. So Lori and Shelly came over and it was pretty much an orgy till late Sunday. I don't even remember all that happened except that it was sunny, and we swam, grilled, and fucked.

Mitzie then started coming over every few weekends and just took to the lifestyle like a fish to water. We not only loved having her over for the sex, we loved having her over just for her. She was definitely in the "Lori and Shelly" category--a playmate and a friend.

Soooooooooooooooo.......

A few months ago, my friend Janey was contemplating a move. I won't go too much into Janey in this entry, but she's this incredible woman I met in 2004, when we lived in Florida. She's gay, and we had a lot of get-togethers and became pretty close.

She was considering a new start in Atlanta. She and her girlfriend were having issues and decided to call it quits. So Ryan fixed up our garage apartment for her. She flew up and even interviewed for a couple of jobs.

Now to be honest, we were considering fixing up that apartment anyway. And when he was done with it, it looked fantastic. We thought it would be the perfect place to house certain...."friends". Maybe even get into the occasional couples swap again. Either way, it would be nice to have it available, even as just a normal guest-type of accommodation.

Well, Janey and her girlfriend Allison just couldn't make the break (and that's a very, very good thing). So Janey stayed in Tampa and we had an extra apartment.

A bit after Janey ended up staying in Tampa, I was chatting with Mitzie on the phone. She mentioned that she wouldn't mind moving to Atlanta after she graduated. She loves the city and surrounding areas. And her home state of TN was just up the freeway. Also, she was anxious to get out of her parents' house.

I didn't discuss the apartment with her. I wouldn't do that without discussing it with hubby first. We both loved the idea of her living there. It'd be rent-free and would give her a good start to her adult life and career. And it was important that she knew it was no-strings. She didn't have to pay the rent to us in sex. She had to know that we didn't consider her our personal fuck-toy.

So the next day, I called her. She loved the idea, but insisted on paying rent. I told her no, and that she could buy her own groceries and personal expenses and all that. And I made it clear to her that sex was her call, not ours. If she wanted it, sure. If not, it wasn't expected.

Still, she wasn't sure about moving. It's a big decision. But she was inclinded towards it. She'd have friends here and a roof over her head. BUT.........

She'd need a job.

Well, lessee.....I'm a fairly high-up business chick and I have lots of contacts. Mitzie was an easy sell as well. She had a ton of administrative experience (she lost the job when the real estate market started hitting the skids) in addition to her shorter time in retail. So I made a few calls and found a buddy (sigh...a non-sex buddy, though.....Jack is soooooooo cute!) who was interested. 

One of his long-time AAs was going to be retiring and he asked me to send Mitzie's resume. He loved it and set up an interview with Mitzie. She drove out on the Friday before Memorial Day weekend and Ryan drove her down. She nailed it. Her experience was solid, her references were great (not just me, but her previous employers) and she was very professional. I was SO proud of her!

So Jack told her to take the weekend to consider it. Normally, from what I know of Jack (besides the fact that I'd love to fuck him in front of hubby) is that if I weren't involved, he'd check her out from head to toe. But I've known him for years and we have a mutual trust built up.

Mitzie spent the weekend giving it some thought and then on Tuesday accepted the job.

I know....risky, right? What if there's a falling-out and Mitzie blabs shit about me? Well, one, I've gotten to know this woman very well--she's too high of character to do that. Two, shit, she'd be cutting her own throat. Three, who'd believe her?

So Mitzie's coming. And will be cumming. LOL She'll be moving next week. Her associate's is completed and she's packing up. She's basically just bringing over her clothes and a couple of pieces of furniture. She's due to start on the 22nd.

And do we strike you as two people who need to pay for sex?  LOL

I know what you're thinking:  "Sugar baby, sugar baby!"  No, this girl stands on her own two feet.  No sex will be required of her.  She won't be at our beck and call.  

I will admit that this is new territory for us.  Sure, Lori and Shelly stay overnight on quite a few weekends, but they don't live on our property 24/7.  Mitzie will be.  But we've all given it a lot of thought--and we did include Lori and Shelly in these discussions--and all involved felt that it was worth a shot.

We're really excited.  I love the idea of three women being available to my hubby on the occasions when I have to take a brief business trip.  And I love the idea of Lori, Shelly, and Mitzie spending the weekends with us grilling, swimming, drinking and cumming.

Of course, when it comes to us and women, we definitely feel it's the more the merrier!