So.......

Mmmmm....this guy was so hot!  Totally was into him!  

Just kidding!  Me and my brother back in 1990.

.....have you all given up on me?  LOL

Seems like on a bit of a treadmill.  I ignore the blog, come back, make an entry, and promise to be more diligent in the future.  Then I disappear again.

And I could do that again.  But money talks and bullshit walks, right?  So I'm not saying shit about making new entries.  I'll have to actually do them.

So for now, hey, at least this is an entry.  Sure, it's started out as an entry that talks about how there haven't been many entries, but it's still an entry.  And there's still time to put something of substance here!

Yay for the entry!

Ahem.

Last month, Jilly called up just to chat.  After hubby made the "I'm not fucking home," gesture at me, he went into his office.  Jilly loves him and likes to talk to him.  He likes her, but DOESN'T like talking to her.  She drives him nuts.

Anyway, she was all dorked up about a party she and her husband had gone to the previous night.  Apparently a girl was flirting with him.  And if that wasn't bad enough, he--HORRORS--seemed to enjoy it!

Sheesh.  Jilly has a gazillion great qualities.  And being a human being, she has a lot of not-so-great qualities.  And sometimes she can be a bit...er....."possessive".  Trust me, I know this first hand.

But one of her great qualities is that she never flies off the handle.  And she knows when she's being a bit too jealous.  So she didn't even talk to her hubby about it.  He didn't do anything wrong.  She vented to me and was over it.

Speaking of Jilly, I never gave you the whole story on her.  As in, uh, I kinda-sorta cheated on her a few times.  My write-up on her was over-the-top sappy, but I really did love her.  And one of my not-so-great qualities back then was not being faithful.  I "only" cheated with guys.  So I was able to rationalize that since I hadn't slept with other girls, what was the harm?

I am what I am.  I've never grasped the connection between fidelity and commitment.  I think that's a "me" thing.  Actually, I'm sure that's a Lexie-thing.

Anyway, when we were about six months into our relationship, I asked her if she'd be open to a threesome with a guy.  She looked at me like I had asked her if we could go out and shoot children and stomp on puppies.

Fidelity, thy name is Jilly.

Anyway, she never found out.  And I really learned something about myself when I didn't feel the slightest bit guilty about my fun on the side.  I'm going to change my write-up on her to reflect and make it more accurate about all of this.

Something else I've kinda not been too forward about is my pre-Jilly sex life.  Yeah, I had one.  I made some boys happy.  Hey, a few entries ago, I said there's still some stuff I hadn't told you that would surprise you.  LOL

Jobs.....I get job offerssssssssssssssssssss..............

Which is weird, considering the current economic climate.

Actually, "offers" is not really the right word.  "Inquiries" is.  Get calls from recruiters seeing if I'm available for such and such a job.  I don't really get so far as to actual companies, but some of the jobs were located in different areas.  Philly, NYC (I'd love it, but hubby would tell me to find a good divorce lawyer!), Raleigh, Miami, and home near Los Angeles.

I don't pursue any of those.  I LOVE (well, my ego does) being asked, though.

There IS one that's really intriguing.  It didn't come from a recruiter, though.  A former colleague called last week and  was pimping a job at his company.  There'd be some travel (not much more than I'm doing now).

It's basically a training coordinator position.  I'd, well, coordinate all of the training programs for field offices in the eastern region.  Each office has its own trainer and these trainers would report to me.  I'd be required to fly into each office every two weeks or so.  Some program design would be done in conjunction with the field trainers.

What makes this really tempting is that no move would be required.  I'd work out of my home office and hit the regional headquarters (Boston) two to three times a month.

It would also bring in more money.

Anyhoo, he told to take a week or so to mull it over.  There's no rush (the person who currently holds the job is retiring, but told the company to take its time, within reason of course).

Doubt I'll take it, though.  Yeah, it's tempting.  But it's also tempting to continue to work on different project for Brenda and taking in freelance work on the side.  I've really grown to like the flexibility my current situation affords me.

So...what else......what else.......

Miss Bev is still coming around.  Man!  This summer was GREAT!  Her kids were visiting their grandparents down in Valdosta again and she'd make it over two to three times a week.  We adore this woman.  LOL  Threesomes and more threesomes!

Now the kiddies are back and to complicate matters a bit more, she just got promoted to assistant manager (she works at a convenience store).  More money and she totally deserves it.  But it also will require more hours (she was working 25 to 30 a week).  It's good for her and her family.  The money will definitely come in handy.  So her visits have dwindled down to once every two weeks or so.

Hubby and I are just grateful for the time we do get with her.

Nick's doing well.  We've been able to get together for some bumping and grinding lately.  And I've also been getting together with Jerry when in the Big Apple.  It's nice having a husband, two boyfriends, and countless girlfriends!  Promiscuity rocks!

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh......speaking of girlfriends.............

Got me a new one!

The beginning of August, I was on-line when I ran into Steve an old, uh, "friend"..  He lives in Seattle and we had a one-time thing several years ago.  After our fun, he met a girl and got married.  End of sex fun, beginning of platonic fun.  We've kept in touch over the past several years.

Steve is--and always has been--a genuine class act.  He's in his fifties and is a real gentleman.  And I have to add that his oral skills are a-mayyyyy-zing.

So I ran into him and we were chatting.  He asked whereabouts Alpharetta was and then asked "Are you near Norcross?"  I said, yeah, it was pretty close. 

He mentioned that an ex-girlfriend of his lived there and that he was still in touch with her.  Then he mentioned that she had told him that she was interesting in being with another woman.  She's married, and her husband was cool with her exploring this.. 

Yeah boyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

Then he sent me her pic.  Oh yeah.  I was interested.  So I sent him an updated pic and he said he'd email it her and give her my addy.  We chatted for a bit and then he headed off to bed (hopefully to give his wife some action). 

She emailed me the next day and I emailed back.  She was very interested.  Finally, we started chatting on IM and really hit if off.  She was 29, married, and didn't have any kids.

We chatted for about an hour when I finally told her that she needed to know something about me (gee, ya think?).  So I sent her a link to my blog and told her to look it over.  I told her that it was pretty wild and all that.  I knew I was taking a chance in scaring her off, but better now than later.

I didn't  hear from her for about fifteen minutes.  I figured, hey, oh well.  But she finally IM'd back and said, "Wow.  I gotta go through your blog some more, but it's pretty cool.  I don't have the guts to do all that you and hubby do, but it sounds like fun.  Steve told me that you were pretty, uh, you know, experienced."

That was certainly an understatement.

I have to admit, I was relieved.  She headed off to bed and we chatted some more the next day.  Over the next week or so, we chatted about everything.  She had a ton of questions and I was happy to answer them.  She was apprehensive about taking that next step, and I didn't want to pressure her.  We also chatted on the phone several times. We agreed to meet for lunch the following day.

We met at the Northpointe Mall for some S'Barro's.  I arrived early and was actually somewhat anxious.  I really wanted this woman.  She was pretty and really sweet.  Finally, I heard "Alex?"  I stood  up and we hugged and walked over to S'Barro's.

It went great.  We talked about quite a few things and I stressed that I wouldn't push her for an answer.  And i told her that even if she didn't want to go through with it, I'd like to just be friends. 

You just can't push somebody.  If you do, you might get them into bed, but they won't be as comfortable as they could be and everyone enjoys themselves less.  I didn't want to fuck her and have her regret it.  Been there, done that.  Definitely not a good thing.

That night she called and we talked and she wanted to go through with it.  Sherrill came over around noon, which made for a pretty funny scene.  Janine had come over to see hubby, so Sherrill came in and I introduced her to hubby and Janine.  Then I took Sherrill to one room and hubby took Janine into another.

LOL It's like, "Have fun, honey!"  "You too, sweetie!"

Hey, we dig sex.  We dig sex a lot!

Anyway, a couple of hours later, I had converted a bi-curious woman into a bisexual woman.  What can I say?  I'm good.  I'm really good!  Oh man, I gotta tell you though:  for a first-timer, she was terrific.

This could really get more involved as well.  Sherrill's hubby is a real cutie.  And Sherrill might be interested in seeing about a swap.  Hubby's hot for Sherrill and I'm hot for Sherrill's hubby.....and Sherrill likes my hubby.....maybe her hubby would like me.

We'll see.  I'm not going to push it.  I didn't rush things with Bev, and I'm not going to rush things with Sherrill.  We've seen each other several times since then and she's become more and more comfortable every time we've met.  It's important that we establish a firm base for our relationship before we open things up to the men.

But Sherrill baby?  I wanna suck your man's cock!  I wanna watch my hubby fuck you!  LOL

Yeah, I'm bad.